Congratulations-you’re pregnant!
Now what? Whether this is your first rodeo or you’ve been down this road before, discovering you’re expecting can bring a mix of emotions: excitement, nerves, and a thousand questions. As a private midwife specialising in curated, personalised pregnancy care, I’m here to guide you through these early steps with confidence, ease, and the support you deserve.
Here’s everything you need to know about what to do next, including why working with Your Private Midwife could be the game-changer in your pregnancy journey.
Step 1: Take a Deep Breath
First things first, pause and take a moment to let it all sink in. Whether planned or unexpected, this is a pivotal moment. Feeling overwhelmed? That’s completely normal. Pregnancy is a big deal, and your emotions are valid.
Step 2: Confirm Your Pregnancy
Even if that little blue line is clear as day, you’ll want to confirm your pregnancy officially:
• Home Pregnancy Test: Highly reliable but repeat it if you’re unsure.
• Visit a Medical Professional: Your GP/local maternity providers or a private midwife (like me!) can confirm your pregnancy and estimate your due date with you & arrange a scan.
Looking for personalised, stress-free support from the start? Contact Your Private Midwife for an exclusive pregnancy consultation.
Step 3: Decide on Your Care Path
This is where it gets exciting—you have options! It’s your pregnancy, your body, and your birth. The key is choosing a care path that aligns with your values, goals, and lifestyle.
Standard Care (NHS)
• Free and widely accessible but can feel impersonal & outdated.
Private/independent Midwifery (Relationship-Based Care)
• Tailored care built around you.
• Consistent support from the same midwife throughout.
• Focus on your choices, goals, and individual needs.
At Your Private Midwife, I offer bespoke pregnancy care that prioritises your voice and vision. Whether you’re considering a home birth, water birth, or just want a unique, empowering pregnancy experience, I’ve got you covered.
Step 4: Start Thinking About Your Birth Plan
It might seem early, but this is the perfect time to consider how you want your birth experience to unfold. Think about:
• Where you’d like to give birth (home, birthing centre, hospital).
• Who you want by your side.
• Pain management preferences.
Feeling overwhelmed? No problem! Get in touch with me to explore your options and create a plan tailored to you.
Step 5: Prioritise Self-Care
Pregnancy is the ultimate reason to pamper yourself—your well-being directly impacts your growing baby.
• Nutrition: Eat a balanced diet rich in folic acid, iron, and calcium.
• Hydration: Water is your new best friend.
• Rest: Growing a human is exhausting—don’t skimp on sleep.
• Movement: Gentle exercise like yoga or walking can work wonders.
As your private midwife, I can provide customised wellness guidance to keep you glowing from the inside out.
Step 6: Schedule Your First Ultrasound
Your first scan (around 8–14 weeks) is an incredible milestone. It’s an opportunity to check your baby’s development and confirm your guess date.
If you’re already working with me, I’ll help coordinate all the logistics so you can focus on the magic.
Step 7: Build Your Dream Team
Pregnancy is not a solo journey—it’s time to surround yourself with people who will uplift and empower you.
• Partner/Family/Friends: Choose people who’ll be positive and supportive.
• Private Midwife: The cornerstone of personalised, choice-centred care.
With Your Private Midwife, you’ll never feel like “just another patient.” From the first trimester to postpartum, I’ll be your go-to for all things pregnancy, birth, and beyond.
Step 8: Educate Yourself
Knowledge is power! But let’s ditch the fear-mongering. Choose resources that are evidence-based and empowering.
• Sign up for curated antenatal classes.
• Read reputable books or follow blogs like this one.
• Lean on your private midwife for tailored advice.
Step 9: Start Thinking About Postnatal Care
The fourth trimester (aka postpartum) is just as important as pregnancy. Ask yourself:
• What support will you need in those early days?
• How can you ensure a smooth recovery and transition into parenthood?
At Your Private Midwife, my care doesn’t stop after birth. I offer elite postnatal services designed to help you thrive.
Why Choose Your Private Midwife?
Pregnancy is one of life’s most transformative experiences, and you deserve nothing less than extraordinary care. With Your Private Midwife, you’ll receive:
• Relationship-Based Care: One2One midwifery care, every step of the way.
• Tailored Services: From antenatal to postnatal care, it’s all about you.
• Expert Guidance: Say goodbye to tick box advice—everything is designed around your goals.
Ready to create a pregnancy and birth experience as unique as you are? Contact me today to book your consultation.
Finding out you’re pregnant is just the beginning of a beautiful journey. By putting yourself at the centre and choosing care that aligns with your values, you’re setting the stage for an empowering experience. Let’s make it unforgettable together.
Curated pregnancy care for women who want more. Explore the difference at YourPrivateMidwife.co.uk.